Selena Gomez has responded to the public scrutiny surrounding her dancing with co-star Édgar Ramírez, despite being in a relationship with Benny Blanco. The 32-year-old actress was spotted at Sabrina Carpenter’s concert in New York City on September 29 with Ramírez, who co-stars with her in the film “Emilia Pérez.” A TikTok video posted by Gomez’s friend, Conar Franklin, showed the group enjoying the show, with Ramírez dancing closely behind Gomez, wrapping his arms around her waist as they sang along to Carpenter’s song “Espresso.”
Following the video going viral and fans questioning Gomez’s relationship status with Blanco, she took to TikTok to address the speculation. In a sarcastic tone, she wrote, “Omg how dare I dance with my bestie,” along with a shocked face emoji, clarifying that she and Ramírez are simply friends. Gomez also shared another video from a fan showing her and Ramírez dancing together at a Beyoncé concert last year.
After the concert, Gomez posted a video on Instagram singing along to Carpenter’s song “Juno,” a track about love and starting a family. In the caption, Gomez tagged Blanco, confirming their relationship. Blanco playfully responded by quoting one of Gomez’s songs, “Can’t keep my hands to myself.”
Gomez officially confirmed her relationship with Blanco in December 2023, putting an end to months of speculation. Despite facing criticism online, Gomez stood by her relationship, stating, “If you can’t accept me at my happiest then don’t be in [my] life at all.” She continues to express her happiness with Blanco, appreciating his unwavering support amidst public scrutiny.
In a recent interview with Vanity Fair, Gomez opened up about her profound connection with Blanco, calling him a light in her life and her best friend. She emphasised the strength and positivity he brings, indicating that he is a significant presence in her life, solidifying their bond and mutual admiration.
Gomez’s unwavering defence of her relationship with Blanco and her dedication to maintaining her happiness amidst public scrutiny highlight her commitment to living authentically and valuing the support and love she shares with her partner.